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Finding someone special here... from strawbeezy's blog

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So I've been thinking:

Here we are (on this site), anxiously waiting to see who we meet and talk to every time we sign on.  Let's say after a few chats and private messages, you seem to become more attached with someone of the opposite sex (not to exclude the rest). 

There's a problem now, the two of you are from different countries, where meeting each other isn't as easy as just 'buying a ticket' and flying there....obviously there will be some drawbacks.  Whether it be money, Visa issues, school, work, etc...getting to see this person would be hard.

This leads to my concern...

Let's say after the two have been skyping for almost every day, and you now get the chance to meet.  This is obviously the brighter side of things, right?  I don't know.  What happens if you meet each other (1 week, 2 weeks, etc) and end up missing each other even more when you go home?  What if the only way to be happy every single day is if it takes one person to leave their friends, family, and country...just to be with someone else?  Does a situation like this ever work?  Also, just keep in mind that you will not see each other as often as you'd like.  I am assuming once or twice a year, if possible.

What are your thoughts on this? I'd like to see everyone's opinion about this subject matter.


 


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Sep 7 '12
Hey, very good thought and realistic perspective on the subject matter. I've just been barely exposed to this whole amwf thing and I came to this site out of curiosity and boredom, but now I wonder.. Is it possible to achieve a real, meaningful, serious relationship through these distant virtual encounters? In other words, could you really find that special someone?

You are right about seeing one another in person. It may first start out as a few visits a year, but at some point, someone will have to leave their country for the couple to be truly together. I think if someone here pulls it off and shares their story, it will definitely motivate and inspire others to follow in their footsteps.
Hey, very good thought and realistic perspective on the subject matter. I've just been barely exposed to this whole amwf thing and I came to this site out of curiosity and boredom, but now I wonder.. ...See more
Sep 7 '12
with the type of people i have met on this site so far, i don't think this will be impossible.
Lifetime
Sep 7 '12
I've seen ppl getting marry to ppl who they met on these sites. It's gonna take time and money, and nothing is guaranteed. Best of luck to you and your possible future other half.
Sep 7 '12
Wow...PinkPokemon, you basically summed up a lot of the same things I was thinking about this whole time. I can see the happiness you two have for each other, regardless how far apart you both are. For what its worth, I know it can hurt if things eventually don't work out...but its good to know there is still hope which ties the both of you. As of right now, the happiness is the only thing that matters because we both know the worst case scenario, and the CHANCE for the best case scenario.

I sincerely wish you the best in your relationship!
Wow...PinkPokemon, you basically summed up a lot of the same things I was thinking about this whole time. I can see the happiness you two have for each other, regardless how far apart you both are. Fo...See more
Sep 7 '12
good luck to everyone! lets make this happen
Sep 7 '12
Trying my best here
Sep 8 '12
@Pinkpokemon - Thanks for telling us your situation in detail. I hope everything works out for the good.

Sep 9 '12
Ty, I`l keep my fingers + for you guys (^_-)-☆
Sep 26 '13
It would be great to go out of the country in the pursuit of happiness and love but what if money and other circumstances are an issue, preventing you from doing such a thing?
I am all for it (chasing your heart's desires) but honestly I try to stick with what's closer to me here in NY...or at least in the country.
It would be great to go out of the country in the pursuit of happiness and love but what if money and other circumstances are an issue, preventing you from doing such a thing?
I am all for it ...See more
May 28 '17
I'm not sure what I'd do in a situation like that, very hard indeed.
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