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Is Long Distance Relationship possible? from prelude4's blog

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In this day and age, where internet and flights are common place, we need to start rethink our possible pool of dating partner. Long distance relationships from sites like this one are becoming increasingly possible due to the fact that internet and cam chat providing a convenient way to let us stay connected, and the (relatively) cheap flight available also makes the world smaller. 


Before there are internet, LDR could be a real hurdle because all you could do was have a phone call with your significant other and if he/she happens to be living oversea, the phone bill is going to add up quickly. Now with skype and tinychat, everybody in the world is only a finger tip away. This gives us the opportunity to not only talk and listen, but to see each other. And with tinychat, you even get the chance to interact with each other in a social environment, all at the comfort of your home with no charge.


Not to mention the access to relatively cheap flight. For the first time in human history, everybody can reach almost any corner of the world in a matter of hours. This basically shrink our world.


The spread of english as the universal language also helps bring people's mind closer to each other regardless of your race and nationality.


However, LDR is still harder than a local relationship due to reasons that are obvious. You won't be able to touch each other, fuck each other, and there is a larger degree of uncertainty with your partner, and it's easier to lie and cheat.  But that is not to say, a local relationship would eliminate lies and cheating from happening. It's just relatively harder.


Another down side of LDR is it requires a lot of money, to buy tickets, travelling expense, etc. Logistically, its very costly.


So all in all, if you think the relationship is worthy of going long distance, then LDR is just like a short distance relationship. Given you have plan to eventually move in with the LDR partner.




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Dec 25 '12
what if you found that you don't have feeling with each other when you finally meet?
Dec 25 '12
u wont know unless u try and spend some time together. its the same with local relationships. just because u're close it dosnt mean it will work out and things will be perfect. every relationship requires a lot of effort and hard work. but think this way: what if u meet someone online and u're really attracted to that person, u spend months and months dreaming of them and the moment u'll be able to kiss them, hold them in ur arms and wake up beside them and than that day comes and its like all of ur dreams came true. i think there are higher odds that u wont be able to get enough of each other than there will be lack of feelings. come on, someone just did all those amazing things just for u, he came across the world to be with u wouldnt that make u feel special? i think that 1st encounter has to be spectacular if u know each other for quite some time, u skype regularly as often as u can, u're super close and confide to one another and u just miss them endlessly. maybe im being helplessly romantic but if someone did that 4 me i'd love him forever. every girl wants a prince in shining armor.u wont know unless u try and spend some time together. its the same with local relationships. just because u're close it dosnt mean it will work out and things will be perfect. every relationship requ...See more
Dec 25 '12
im totally agree with anjel
Dec 25 '12
thank u! i just dont like when people are so negative about it. if u're into someone, screw all the obstacles and fight for them! u dont give up only because there's a possibility it wont turn out the way u planned. u have to take the risk. maybe that will be the best decision u made in ur life and u'll have a fantastic story to tell to ur future gorgeous mixed kids lets face it, mixed babies are beautiful. thats a rule. lolthank u! i just dont like when people are so negative about it. if u're into someone, screw all the obstacles and fight for them! u dont give up only because there's a possibility it wont turn out the...See more
Dec 25 '12
yeah! im so tired of the guys in my country!
Lifetime
Dec 25 '12
T, sweetheart, you are so right about it! It requires a lot of effort, and trust. Miss you so much! And Anjel is right, every kiss and hug becomes special, every touch... all because long lasting craving for each other!
Dec 26 '12
I've seen it work once.

I've seen it fail countless times.
Lifetime
Dec 26 '12
for it to work, you need one critical requirement, limited option at your local area. That's why i think AMWF couple have a higher chance of pulling off a LDR as oppose to regular couple. With that said, if you have a hidden motive other than really to find a relationship partner, then it doesn't matter LDR or SDR, AMWF or not, it will not work. So the first step in any relationship especially LDR is to determine what is the motive of the other person. It's a risky business and nothing is guarantee.for it to work, you need one critical requirement, limited option at your local area. That's why i think AMWF couple have a higher chance of pulling off a LDR as oppose to regular couple. With that sa...See more
Dec 26 '12
it works :] ive had one that has lasted a year...it only gets tough when the person no longer has a phone or anything else to communicate you with TT^TT
Mar 17 '13
It's Possible but it's rare to see the succed one '_ '
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