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How to be a successful asian man in a Western world from prelude4's blog

Let’s face it, if you can read this blog with no problem understanding it, chances are you are either a banana, or an asian living in an English speaking country or somewhere in the western hemisphere. And if that’s the case, I know why you are here. It’s not easy being an asian man in a western world. Truth be told, when it comes to many things, asian men are in disadvantage when compare with white, black or latin men. We are on average, shorter, smaller, fobbier, physically less attractive in the mainstream sense, and most of us are either first or second generation immigrants and a minority in the communities we live in. With so many headwinds against us, it’s no wonder why so many asian men are single, without any game to get attractive girls, and remind virgin well into their twenties. While at the same time, other non asian men are taking asian women left and right with ease.

If you feel the same about your situation, it is totally normal, because I felt that way too not too long ago.  All throughout my young adulthood, I was struggling with the same image problem. I knew I was smart, and multi talented, but, girls just don’t put too much interest in knowing me. I’m always the one who they overlooked. In best case, I’m a token asian dude in their group of friends. And if you hang out with your asian only social group, you will be automatically looked upon as social outcast, not cool, nerds, geeks, etc.

It is not my intention to change the perception of asian men in the western society, because most of us are here directly or indirectly as a result of immigration. If we are so fed up with this, we can go back to our mother land and problem solved. My intention is this, I want to inspire asian men to become successful, in the financial and dating realm,  while play by the rule set by the western society. In other word, I want to have a win win outcome for both asian men and the western society they live in. 

Having said all this, I will begin explore more topics about how to be a successful asian man in a western world in the upcoming blog series. So stay tune.


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Sep 22 '13
good blog
Sep 23 '13
This posts should be described as more of a PERSONAL experience rant, instead of something that describes Asian males in western society. For instance, PERSONALLY as an asian man in western society, I feel like it's an advantage to be asian. Women are interested in my heritage, my accent, what I have to say, and ultimately me as a person. I've never had any real problems introducing myself, or having someone introduce themselves to me. It's an easy social experience, and fun if you aren't only interested in gaming or other "asian" things. Truth be told, we're on the same plane as any other ethnic group. It's just a majority of Asian males seem to believe that we are handicapped in life. The fact that this site is so popular should have already warped that idea, however for some reason it remains. So to all the asian guys reading this post and seeing themselves in it, know that YOU don't have to be the "Asian male" described. All it takes is going out there and talking to people, the more you do it, the better you become. I believe in you![sim/31]This posts should be described as more of a PERSONAL experience rant, instead of something that describes Asian males in western society. For instance, PERSONALLY as an asian man in western society, I...See more
Sep 23 '13
+5 stars for Niro359's post. On another note... The girl on the far left is leaning into the Asian guy and mirroring his hand position. If he doesn't pick up on that, he's pretty clueless. He should be worshiping her beautiful curves with his mouth and make her his gf. (Just saying... You know it's true.)
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+5 stars for Niro359's post. On another note... The girl on the far left is leaning into the Asian guy and mirroring his hand position. If he doesn't pick up on that, he's pretty clueless. He should b...See more
Oct 3 '13
i can read it without any problem and im from mainland china and im not growing up in western country.
dude i suggest u visit ur home, as it's europe for white people it's asia. i don't know where u come from but in my home town(north china) my size's pretty normal(i'm 6'1'' and 220 pounds). stop perceiving u fellows are all like this or that, i went to east europe and the old people are also way shorter than younger cause during communism they didn't get enough nutrition. it's the same happened in china. just take half year go to some places of china u'r gonna find ur fellows are quite different.
u'r not gonna believe it the average height of young people in my hometown is close to that in england.
i totally agree with what u said. u r absolutely right, as immigrant we need to adapt ourselves to the society but not reversely. my only point is: we asian guys are actually physically attractive as long as u do something for it.
in my hometown parents don't force kids to study so hard so kids got plenty of time spent on basketball court and play outside. in college a lot of guys also spend time in gym.
when i came to europe and u.s., surprise! only few asian dudes go to gym.....

anyway.thanks for the blog.
i can read it without any problem and im from mainland china and im not growing up in western country.
dude i suggest u visit ur home, as it's europe for white people it's asia. i don't know wh...See more
Oct 17 '13
Have real skills, ex. good at science, be creative, and MOST OF ALL, HAVE YOUR OWN BUSINESS!
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