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This is probably the part where you expect a newbie to be all respectful and lollipop sweet. Well you would be wrong. Sultan is all about the hardcore and scoffs at conventional “Hi, I’m a nice AM and can’t to meet all of you nice WF..”ZZZZZ



Who the !@#$ does this Sultan guy think he is?


In a former life Sultan was a mild mannered accountant. He was captivated by a vanilla princess. Sadly his advances were rebuffed. In an attempt to re-capture that lovey-dovey feeling he has combed the online landscape only to find sadly many a sausage fest (or should that be eggroll fest).


What kinds of ladies are eligible for hareming?

The lithe, limber and those in possession of a trampoline automatically move to the front of the line.


What do I get out of this?

You shall be amused and sustenance may be provided.

sultan Sep 26 '12 · Comments: 28
So I've been thinking:

Here we are (on this site), anxiously waiting to see who we meet and talk to every time we sign on.  Let's say after a few chats and private messages, you seem to become more attached with someone of the opposite sex (not to exclude the rest). 

There's a problem now, the two of you are from different countries, where meeting each other isn't as easy as just 'buying a ticket' and flying there....obviously there will be some drawbacks.  Whether it be money, Visa issues, school, work, etc...getting to see this person would be hard.

This leads to my concern...

Let's say after the two have been skyping for almost every day, and you now get the chance to meet.  This is obviously the brighter side of things, right?  I don't know.  What happens if you meet each other (1 week, 2 weeks, etc) and end up missing each other even more when you go home?  What if the only way to be happy every single day is if it takes one person to leave their friends, family, and country...just to be with someone else?  Does a situation like this ever work?  Also, just keep in mind that you will not see each other as often as you'd like.  I am assuming once or twice a year, if possible.

What are your thoughts on this? I'd like to see everyone's opinion about this subject matter.


strawbeezy Sep 6 '12 · Comments: 15
In this day and age, where internet and flights are common place, we need to start rethink our possible pool of dating partner. Long distance relationships from sites like this one are becoming increasingly possible due to the fact that internet and cam chat providing a convenient way to let us stay connected, and the (relatively) cheap flight available also makes the world smaller. 

Before there are internet, LDR could be a real hurdle because all you could do was have a phone call with your significant other and if he/she happens to be living oversea, the phone bill is going to add up quickly. Now with skype and tinychat, everybody in the world is only a finger tip away. This gives us the opportunity to not only talk and listen, but to see each other. And with tinychat, you even get the chance to interact with each other in a social environment, all at the comfort of your home with no charge.

Not to mention the access to relatively cheap flight. For the first time in human history, everybody can reach almost any corner of the world in a matter of hours. This basically shrink our world.

The spread of english as the universal language also helps bring people's mind closer to each other regardless of your race and nationality.

However, LDR is still harder than a local relationship due to reasons that are obvious. You won't be able to touch each other, fuck each other, and there is a larger degree of uncertainty with your partner, and it's easier to lie and cheat.  But that is not to say, a local relationship would eliminate lies and cheating from happening. It's just relatively harder.

Another down side of LDR is it requires a lot of money, to buy tickets, travelling expense, etc. Logistically, its very costly.

So all in all, if you think the relationship is worthy of going long distance, then LDR is just like a short distance relationship. Given you have plan to eventually move in with the LDR partner.

prelude4 Dec 24 '12 · Comments: 13 · Tags: ldr, long distance relationship

I hope everybody here is enjoying the site and making new friends. As you know, we advertise on facebook to bring in new people (girls) to the site. Thats why our site has a very high female to male ratio. And advertising on facebook cost $$$$.

Currently, the cost is partially supported by our donators and me. I also try to bring in extra revenue by putting ads on the site, however, that doesnt generate nearly enough to cover the cost.

So I am proposing a paid VIP membership which is optional for the site members. And the VIP members will have these following extra benefits:

-Be listed as Featured Member (on the front page, the user carousel)and get more visits to your profile.

-Unlimited credits (for sending private messages and virtual gifts)

-Unban from cam chat on demand

-VIP badge in your avatar

-Ads free

-And more to come in the future.

Would you paid $6.99 a month for this?

prelude4 Aug 27 '12 · Comments: 12 · Tags: vip, membership
Hello hello!!! So ... I'll be in NYC and my boyfriend and I are making an AMWFSN MEET UP there. We want to make it some time in March, either 22nd- 23rd or 29th-30th (as both options are on WEEKEND).

I would love to see people showing up on this meet up, who ever wants to participate join the event he created  NYC AMWFSN Sausage Fest

Also lets organise ourselves!
1. Which places to visit!? East village? Chinatown? Flushing?
2. What to do? Picking up women (and men) at bars? Eating asian food? Visiting strip club? Karaoke? Clubbing?

Join us guys and girls!!! Lets have fun!!!

Date & time Mar 22 Location NYC Creator admin - See more at: http://amwfsn.com/event/nyc-amwfsn-sausage-fest#sthash.y3tlroQT.dpuf

some members of AMWFSN will be meeting up in NYC. Just try to see who and how many will be interested in showing up.  - See more at: http://amwfsn.com/event/nyc-amwfsn-sausage-fest#sthash.bFvY36ay.dpuf

some members of AMWFSN will be meeting up in NYC. Just try to see who and how many will be interested in showing up.  - See more at: http://amwfsn.com/event/nyc-amwfsn-sausage-fest#sthash.bFvY36ay.dpuf

I have observed many relationships over the years, and I have found jealousy and selfishness to be a leading culprit to their demise.

So as a PSA, I want to help guys to prevent ruining their relationships due to jealousy and selfishness.

Before an advice can be afforded, we must define and understand the roots of jealousy and selfishness. In short you feel jealous in a relationship often when you feel inferior to someone and feel threatened by them. Selfishness is usually when you need your "better half's" complete and constant attention on you.

As mentioned earlier, jealousy is usually a result of an inferiority complex. When one feels inferior, especially in a relationship, one will often be easily threatened by anyone who has the potential to take your significant other away. One would often think of the worst case scenarios even if reality diverges greatly from these scenarios.

Selfishness in a relationship is when you need constant attention from your significant other. In short, selfishness is when you feel sad whenever your better half tends to her own needs in life that doesn't involve you i.e. work, family, friends.

Jealousy and selfishness can tear any relationship apart. So save yourself from ruining what you have and ask yourself these questions before you feel a jealous or selfish urge.

1. Would you commit yourself to seclude yourself and cut your interactions with your friends and family? If you answered "no", then how can you expect your significant other to do the same?

2. Can you commit devoting all of your waking hours to thinking about her and only her? Unless you are a psycho or sociopath, then obviously you can't. You have a life, a job, responsibilities, etc...so does she. How can you expect her to do something that you can't see yourself doing?

3. Your GF is in a relationship with you, she is not in a relationship with every guy she talks with...unless you are dating a hoe; if you are dating a hoe then she is probably banging every guy she talks to, but it's your fault. Have faith in yourself. Out of all the potential suitors out there, she chose to be with you.

4. Have TRUST in each other. Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship. A relationship will most likely NOT last if there is not trust. If you date someone for a long time and you don't trust her, then break up dude. It just means you are not ready for a mature relationship.

5. Also look deep inside yourself. Usually, you fear what others will do to you based on what you are capable and willing do do yourself. You can't be so scared of cheating unless you know that you are capable of cheating yourself.

6. Finally, have more self worth! Dude if she leaves you or cheat on you...fuck it, don't dwell on it too much. Plenty of fish out there in the sea. Seriously, why would you feel down about loosing someone who doesn't respect you (especially if she cheats on you)? Also, if you happen to love the person that leaves you...dude let her go. If you really and honestly love someone, than you should want nothing more than her happiness, even if her happiness happens not to be you.

LOL...I hope this will help some people on this site.

Aznsurfer Jul 26 '12 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 8
I just feel like writing about my experience on this site, thus far. Because A> I can not sleep and B> A really good song came on my Ipod. So i'll pretty much write for the length of the song.

I love coming here because of all the new friends i have made, only two being in my actual country, not even state and one i knew previously.

I love this community because it is intimate, and the opportunity it brings to form bonds overseas and what not.

I have not come here with the agenda of finding myself a lover or anything remotely close, i am here because i love the people, and it's the people here that keep me coming back for more.

I am truly honored to have made so many lovely new friends, who are infinitely kind, upbeat and always up for a chat. We are all supportive of each other and encourage each other to pursue whatever it is that our hearts desires, and that is what i really like.

Even if it is online - even if it is not IRL. The kind words and friendships i have formed make me smile everyday.

I lovessss you guise.

Wow this song is cool. Also much longer than i anticipated.

Turtles and Hugs

Kiley x
peep Jan 8 '13 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 7
Person A: I am going to make another AMWF site!!

Me: Why?

Person A: Because I will be the boss and I will get laid


admin Jul 26 '13 · Comments: 7 · Tags: amwf site, rage

So this past summer I took a trip to south-east europe where my fiancee lives. 

This is the first stop of my trip, zagreb croatia. There are a lot of historical looking buildings and lots of outdoor bar and cafe in the middle of the streets. You see a lot of tourists in this city because they are very easy to spot, because they are asians :D
Impressive architectures in zagreb.A church in zagreb being renovated.
This is in a small city in Bosnia, called Bijeljina. 
A statue in Bijeljina
And finally, a pic of me being robbed by 2 bosnian girls.

prelude4 Dec 15 '13 · Comments: 7 · Tags: bosnia, croatia, serbia, trip report, europe

Let’s face it, if you can read this blog with no problem understanding it, chances are you are either a banana, or an asian living in an English speaking country or somewhere in the western hemisphere. And if that’s the case, I know why you are here. It’s not easy being an asian man in a western world. Truth be told, when it comes to many things, asian men are in disadvantage when compare with white, black or latin men. We are on average, shorter, smaller, fobbier, physically less attractive in the mainstream sense, and most of us are either first or second generation immigrants and a minority in the communities we live in. With so many headwinds against us, it’s no wonder why so many asian men are single, without any game to get attractive girls, and remind virgin well into their twenties. While at the same time, other non asian men are taking asian women left and right with ease.

If you feel the same about your situation, it is totally normal, because I felt that way too not too long ago.  All throughout my young adulthood, I was struggling with the same image problem. I knew I was smart, and multi talented, but, girls just don’t put too much interest in knowing me. I’m always the one who they overlooked. In best case, I’m a token asian dude in their group of friends. And if you hang out with your asian only social group, you will be automatically looked upon as social outcast, not cool, nerds, geeks, etc.

It is not my intention to change the perception of asian men in the western society, because most of us are here directly or indirectly as a result of immigration. If we are so fed up with this, we can go back to our mother land and problem solved. My intention is this, I want to inspire asian men to become successful, in the financial and dating realm,  while play by the rule set by the western society. In other word, I want to have a win win outcome for both asian men and the western society they live in. 

Having said all this, I will begin explore more topics about how to be a successful asian man in a western world in the upcoming blog series. So stay tune.

prelude4 Aug 23 '13 · Rate: 3 · Comments: 5 · Tags: amwf, asian man, inspirational
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