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In this day and age, where internet and flights are common place, we need to start rethink our possible pool of dating partner. Long distance relationships from sites like this one are becoming increasingly possible due to the fact that internet and cam chat providing a convenient way to let us stay connected, and the (relatively) cheap flight available also makes the world smaller. 

Before there are internet, LDR could be a real hurdle because all you could do was have a phone call with your significant other and if he/she happens to be living oversea, the phone bill is going to add up quickly. Now with skype and tinychat, everybody in the world is only a finger tip away. This gives us the opportunity to not only talk and listen, but to see each other. And with tinychat, you even get the chance to interact with each other in a social environment, all at the comfort of your home with no charge.

Not to mention the access to relatively cheap flight. For the first time in human history, everybody can reach almost any corner of the world in a matter of hours. This basically shrink our world.

The spread of english as the universal language also helps bring people's mind closer to each other regardless of your race and nationality.

However, LDR is still harder than a local relationship due to reasons that are obvious. You won't be able to touch each other, fuck each other, and there is a larger degree of uncertainty with your partner, and it's easier to lie and cheat.  But that is not to say, a local relationship would eliminate lies and cheating from happening. It's just relatively harder.

Another down side of LDR is it requires a lot of money, to buy tickets, travelling expense, etc. Logistically, its very costly.

So all in all, if you think the relationship is worthy of going long distance, then LDR is just like a short distance relationship. Given you have plan to eventually move in with the LDR partner.

prelude4 Dec 24 '12 · Comments: 13 · Tags: ldr, long distance relationship

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mariaonelove Dec 12 '12
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mariaonelove Dec 12 '12
Have you ever been so frustrated that you want to cry but no tears fall? 
Have you ever been so frustrated you want to destroy everything and everyone around you but are incapable of the action?

If so... well congrats! You're one of many and I don't have an easy solution for you. Just deal with it?

Hmm... Edit: Life sucks and you gotta work 24/7 to make it better. From the day your mummy put you in this world you have a full-time job, with happiness as the only salary. It's up to you how fat you want your wallet to be...
MissRosehip Dec 5 '12 · Comments: 3


I guess blog is another term of little piece of memory in a text form in a way, excluding opinion since that's what blogging really is lol. So far until now, I have never noticed the use of this "blog" not particularly because of this site, but I never realized the use of blogging. Blogs appears to display freedom, for we all have an opinion and have rights to say, some places are probably so strict about freedom but at least you have the freedom to write what's on your mind. Blogging is also another way of showing others your opinion without having to tell each person after another without missing what you specifically wanted to state because we tend to make our statement shorter each time we repeat. Could one possibly explain blog as a resort, a escape from stress, an addiction? I've come to realize it may be addictive for we all have an opinion to share to gain sweet attention.


kimchi Dec 5 '12 · Rate: 5 · Tags: first blog, opinion, fresh start, who gives a fuck.
For those of the male gender on this site, read this: just because most girls are here to meet Asian guys, don't assume that they are here to meet you. For the sake of the reputation and image of all the Asian guys here, learn to read the signs and social clues that people afford to you. Learn to distinguish the difference between playing hard to get and being not interested. You can try your best but know when to quit. DON'T CREEP OUT the girls on here. LOL, whenever guys don't understand these simple rules...it reflects negatively on the rest of us. Thanks.
Aznsurfer Nov 24 '12 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 5
My thoughts and prayers to those dealing with the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy. I'm very fortunate to be able to type this, some folks don't have access to electricity or even clean water.  Hope everyone and their family is safe.
sultan Oct 30 '12 · Comments: 1

This is probably the part where you expect a newbie to be all respectful and lollipop sweet. Well you would be wrong. Sultan is all about the hardcore and scoffs at conventional “Hi, I’m a nice AM and can’t to meet all of you nice WF..”ZZZZZ



Who the !@#$ does this Sultan guy think he is?


In a former life Sultan was a mild mannered accountant. He was captivated by a vanilla princess. Sadly his advances were rebuffed. In an attempt to re-capture that lovey-dovey feeling he has combed the online landscape only to find sadly many a sausage fest (or should that be eggroll fest).


What kinds of ladies are eligible for hareming?

The lithe, limber and those in possession of a trampoline automatically move to the front of the line.


What do I get out of this?

You shall be amused and sustenance may be provided.

sultan Sep 26 '12 · Comments: 28
So I've been thinking:

Here we are (on this site), anxiously waiting to see who we meet and talk to every time we sign on.  Let's say after a few chats and private messages, you seem to become more attached with someone of the opposite sex (not to exclude the rest). 

There's a problem now, the two of you are from different countries, where meeting each other isn't as easy as just 'buying a ticket' and flying there....obviously there will be some drawbacks.  Whether it be money, Visa issues, school, work, etc...getting to see this person would be hard.

This leads to my concern...

Let's say after the two have been skyping for almost every day, and you now get the chance to meet.  This is obviously the brighter side of things, right?  I don't know.  What happens if you meet each other (1 week, 2 weeks, etc) and end up missing each other even more when you go home?  What if the only way to be happy every single day is if it takes one person to leave their friends, family, and country...just to be with someone else?  Does a situation like this ever work?  Also, just keep in mind that you will not see each other as often as you'd like.  I am assuming once or twice a year, if possible.

What are your thoughts on this? I'd like to see everyone's opinion about this subject matter.


strawbeezy Sep 6 '12 · Comments: 15


my pickachu keeps me warm at night and i love him haha :) he makes me so happy wuv you pickachu. everyone should have one!

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