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chibimaniaxd Aug 29 '12 · Comments: 2 · Tags: animals tortured fetish

I hope everybody here is enjoying the site and making new friends. As you know, we advertise on facebook to bring in new people (girls) to the site. Thats why our site has a very high female to male ratio. And advertising on facebook cost $$$$.

Currently, the cost is partially supported by our donators and me. I also try to bring in extra revenue by putting ads on the site, however, that doesnt generate nearly enough to cover the cost.

So I am proposing a paid VIP membership which is optional for the site members. And the VIP members will have these following extra benefits:

-Be listed as Featured Member (on the front page, the user carousel)and get more visits to your profile.

-Unlimited credits (for sending private messages and virtual gifts)

-Unban from cam chat on demand

-VIP badge in your avatar

-Ads free

-And more to come in the future.

Would you paid $6.99 a month for this?

prelude4 Aug 27 '12 · Comments: 12 · Tags: vip, membership

What would you do if you lose your job tomorrow? Or flunk out of school?

We look like busy most of the time, going to classes, doing homework, studying, working, kissing boss asses for raises. But is this what we really want to do with our life? Or is it just a preconceived notion that society or corporation feeds us to brainwash us into a profit making machine or consumption robots of sort?

If you have the freedom to do whatever you want in life, what will you spend your life doing? It's a question worth pondering for and it will make your life worth living.

prelude4 Aug 20 '12 · Comments: 1

--> PPS: Look at the bot of the post for music during your read ;) <---

I dont wanna start with history, I will start with what we do now. Stand up, sometimes woken up by our favourite/or maybe hated tunes from the alam clock /mobile .. Go for breakfast, some switching on MTV or other music channels or Radio - random rambling music. 

Then go, drive, walk to school, uni, work whatever. With music. Sometimes we listen to music while were talking to somebody, going shopping, during shool lessons or uni classes. During sports, cooking, or just doing nothing. Partying goes never without music, music (preferably your own) while gaming or reading, doing homework. And when youre finished listening you go sometimes and make some music. ^^

Everywhere.. until batterys giving up on us we wont give up on music. Its our inspiration, our mood our creativity raiser, sometimes distraction or just passing time. Some people can even listen to music while sleeping, but most people like to listen to music before going to sleep.

The nice and convenient thing is having your own music for every kind of situation. I cant tell here what and how people listen to music cause its different, so I'll tell about myself ;)
The range of music I listen to is not defined. I can say I listen to all genres at some time. I dislike mostly pure old pop music or music without rhythm or direction. Still everything gets listened to at the Disco. Mostly Electro, Dance, Trance, House, R&B , some Heavymetal , and Pop Remixes. (David Guetta, Snoop Dogg, Armin Van Buuren.. etc) Even old hits are okay if there are girls or all people dancing. All music that gets sbd into dance mood.
This kinda music is nice to work out too, by the way.
Just some time you can just stop listening with your ears and listen with your body to the music.
One of the best ways to deal with piled up (emotional) stress for sure for me, just get the girls and go dancing, not caring about anything ;)

So after this theres the "mood" music. Sometimes you listen to happy music when youre sad, to cheer up, but sometimes you get the urge to listen to sad music when you're sad, to dwell for a bit in the feelings~ Still, too much sad music is like poison for me. Starting to think about unnessary worries and getting distracted with the misfortune of life and the way of living "properly" and find the correct path in life. Recreating sad memories heals them sometimes though.
On a happier note, if theres happy music, it can switch my mood instantly.. not "artifically happy" but the kind of music that was created with the mind of life flowing or just for fun. Besides the already talked about dance music, there are still Jazz songs (sometimes melancholy, but overall nice) Pop, Latin, Samba, etc.. Rhytmic music that you can dance too but sometimes also just funny music.  If you open your mind up to it, no matter how silly or stupid it may be, you'll always get some of the mood bits ^^ (Bailando bailando...lol)

Then the "situational songs" , sometimes the song just fits the situation you, or somebody else is in and you listen to it thinking of this. It can help you dealing with things sometimes (:
The fascination kind of Music, exotic music ( at least exotic music for me) like African rhytme, Latinamerican, Asian traditional songs .. ( Kokia, one of my favourites in japan)
Fascination can also take place with special Instruments.. (besides the voice, for its also an instrument) for me its Cello, and Apocalyptica. But I like  harp and piano too ^^ There comes in the (heavy) Metal,and it goes down to classic music that I listen to, still not as much anymore as before. For jazz music the fascination must be called Sax and guitar solos though :P

Of course, every music freak has to have the "Musical" phase sometime ^^
Phantom Of the opera, The Lion King, Cats.. Elizabeth.. Dance of the Vampires.. etc ;) some even get into Oper and Operette someday..
Last one I saw was Madame Butterfly ^^

Now after going after classical music back to all time favourites - opening and closing themes of Movies, Drama, Anime - you know the story behind the music and it fits your favourite story.. what can be better? OVA Music is also one of my favourites - From Pirates of The Caribbean on to DTB (Darker Than Black, anime) you can just download the music and go shopping or just walking down the street with an epic battle music theme in your ears and you'll feel like a hero.. ! xD Try it out !

And ofc there won't be asian music missing. I dont want to make it sound bad, but there are lots of asian girl bands sounding like britney spears and some boy bands do have that Blue, or Timberlake or some other US- Star feeling ~
Still I think there is a good mixture in korean/japanese music of dancing , singing and feeling. Chinese songs mostly fall under Exotic music for me, I suppose ^^ I still hear some here and there.. mostly from Taiwanese movies.. so maybe theyre Taiwanese songs.. ^^

So with this I think I have talked long enough about listening to music. Maybe next time a short edit or new post on making music.. :P

PS: I'll support this text with some music links from youtube.. or just yt it yourselves :P

Faithless - I'm not going home
Faithless -Insomnia house electro remix

Nothing Else Matters (live)
Wherever I May Roam

 Apocalyptica, Tribute to Nirvana- Smells like Teen Spirit

Chowa no oto

Blue Bossa
Hit the Road jack

Darker Than Black:- Savage dog Cerberus (extended)
DTB- Galaxy Train

Drama/Taiwanese :
Skip beat- This is love

Liar game -OST

All time fav. songs:

TVXQ - Keep your head down:

U-Kiss Neverland

Within Temptation - Memories

Within Temptation - Frozen

Evanescence - going under

Evanescence - call me when youre sober

Fort Minor <3
Remember the name (sadly censored, Germany doesnt leave anything out)

Believe Me

Eminem - till I collapse

culcha Candela - hamma

pirates of the caribbean

Avatar OST - I see you

Nightwish- Phantom of the Opera <3

Serafima Aug 16 '12
I have observed many relationships over the years, and I have found jealousy and selfishness to be a leading culprit to their demise.

So as a PSA, I want to help guys to prevent ruining their relationships due to jealousy and selfishness.

Before an advice can be afforded, we must define and understand the roots of jealousy and selfishness. In short you feel jealous in a relationship often when you feel inferior to someone and feel threatened by them. Selfishness is usually when you need your "better half's" complete and constant attention on you.

As mentioned earlier, jealousy is usually a result of an inferiority complex. When one feels inferior, especially in a relationship, one will often be easily threatened by anyone who has the potential to take your significant other away. One would often think of the worst case scenarios even if reality diverges greatly from these scenarios.

Selfishness in a relationship is when you need constant attention from your significant other. In short, selfishness is when you feel sad whenever your better half tends to her own needs in life that doesn't involve you i.e. work, family, friends.

Jealousy and selfishness can tear any relationship apart. So save yourself from ruining what you have and ask yourself these questions before you feel a jealous or selfish urge.

1. Would you commit yourself to seclude yourself and cut your interactions with your friends and family? If you answered "no", then how can you expect your significant other to do the same?

2. Can you commit devoting all of your waking hours to thinking about her and only her? Unless you are a psycho or sociopath, then obviously you can't. You have a life, a job, responsibilities, etc...so does she. How can you expect her to do something that you can't see yourself doing?

3. Your GF is in a relationship with you, she is not in a relationship with every guy she talks with...unless you are dating a hoe; if you are dating a hoe then she is probably banging every guy she talks to, but it's your fault. Have faith in yourself. Out of all the potential suitors out there, she chose to be with you.

4. Have TRUST in each other. Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship. A relationship will most likely NOT last if there is not trust. If you date someone for a long time and you don't trust her, then break up dude. It just means you are not ready for a mature relationship.

5. Also look deep inside yourself. Usually, you fear what others will do to you based on what you are capable and willing do do yourself. You can't be so scared of cheating unless you know that you are capable of cheating yourself.

6. Finally, have more self worth! Dude if she leaves you or cheat on you...fuck it, don't dwell on it too much. Plenty of fish out there in the sea. Seriously, why would you feel down about loosing someone who doesn't respect you (especially if she cheats on you)? Also, if you happen to love the person that leaves you...dude let her go. If you really and honestly love someone, than you should want nothing more than her happiness, even if her happiness happens not to be you.

LOL...I hope this will help some people on this site.

Aznsurfer Jul 26 '12 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 8
Uncover all you hide to her true eyes To yester years, tomorrow, and your highs Soak the bitter of walking your lone road Through the dark forest there is no abode The thorns of your friends cannot change your will Though sharp and painful, your heart remains still In the course and direction you feel right Alone you are, striving for a great height As the roads diverge and becomes unclear The chance to live and not be ruled by fear Truly "Hold the world in a grain of sand" Though planned by the Divines your heart's true brand As you lay there abandoned and confused Ever hopeful to always hold her hand
Aznsurfer Jul 19 '12
To the Dieties that roam above
The plains of heaven you know you'd love
The demons unleashed we always fear
But it is in the demons that we come to learn

Truth laying beyond the gates of lies
Aloof I am as my heart silently cries
The veil of truth can never hide
Integrity that it tries to burn

"Eye of Dawn" wait for me
The feelings I cypher and wish you to see
Darkend my skies as I search for you
The key of happiness I need to wield and turn

Seeking for my distant dream
On the bed of nails I hushed the screams
Abode you are, my true and only home
Give me your shelter
Aznsurfer Jul 16 '12

1. I am brutally honest. I hate to lie, even if it hurts people. I believe that the lie will hurt more.

2. Being brutally honest, I hate liars. You lie to me and I find out, I'm done with you.

3. I don't know what love is, and I don't pretend that I do. My idea of love has changed as I have grown, and will probably continue to change.

4. There are two things I'm a sucker for: cologne and sweet talk. Which, if I don't have my head on straight, could get me in a lot of trouble.

5. I hate my big chest, though I have used it to my advantage more than once.

6. I am a lightweight, and extremely proud of it. I'd rather be tipsy on 2 drinks then blacked out on 12.

7. I despise children in general. Occasionally I'll meet one or two I can tolerate.

8. I am very open, and I will talk about anything and everything with anyone. No subject is taboo for me.

9. Things I am scared of: bees/hornets, heights, horses, things that move by themselves that aren't supposed to, and ghosts with no faces.

10. It is almost impossible to gross me out.

11. I get along more with animals than with people.

12. I'm extremely pessimistic, which has turned into my defense system. I'd be a lot sadder if I didn't do this.

13. I have difficulty with motivating myself to do things, even important things. Hopefully someday I will learn how to.

14. I hate most of my family members. They are the type of people I wouldn't associate myself with at all if I had the chance.

15. If you are cruel to animals, I automatically hate you. And these are things I personally believe are cruel, not just things that are illegal.

16. I do have SOME morals left.

17. I think sex is so funny looking. Porn is mostly comedic relief for me.

18. My top 3 sexual fantasies are all completely opposite of each other.

19. I hate public displays of affection. I think it's rude and disgusting. No one wants to see that.

20. I have posed for nude photographs (don't get excited, it was for my friend's art class. They weren't very sexy)

21. I'm obsessed with my weight, but I don't do anything to change it. You have to drag me by the hair to the gym to get me to exercise.

22. I can not stand ignorance. If you don't know what you're talking about, shut the fuck up.

23. I'm a grammar Nazi. I find spelling and grammar mistakes extremely irritating.

24. Drugs and smoking are both filthy, retarded habits and are big turn-offs. You can be the greatest guy in the world but if you smoke or do drugs, then there's no way.

25. I find it hard to trust people, probably because I've been betrayed so many times.


Wow, this list is a lot more negative than I thought. I guess that says more about me than anything else.

HayriGuro May 23 '12 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 5
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