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Maybe I'm just not attactive to Asian men? | Forum

TammyFaye Feb 2
Hello, my name is Tammy. I am attracted to Asian men but I can't find any that are interested. I've dated an Asian man before but that was 10 years ago. It's not easy finding AM where I live. I don't know, maybe I'm just not attractive enough. I'm not fat (120lbs) and I'm not tall (5'2"). What is it that turns AM away from me? 
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Lack of confidence maybe.
TammyFaye Feb 2
I have confidence and I'm outgoing. I like to conversate and I'm open to new things. 
Engali Feb 27
It sounds like a problem  with finding enough Asian men. I mean, you yourself said that there aren't that many where you live. You can't get a good sense of how attractive Asian men in general find you based off of a small sample. I can't view your profile pic, but you certainly look cute in your avatar. My bet is on finding more since you can't reasonably expect all Asian men to find you attractive. Also, I think Asian American men will be more open/receptive to you. 
tangning Mar 21
If you want my honest opinion, I personally like girls that are a little taller, 170-175 (cm) would be perfect (5'7" - 5'9" ?). It does not matter she is a European girl or a Chinese girl.


Being a white girl does not give one a free pass which would be absolutely attractive to all Asian men. For me European girls look exotic (good exotic), but many Chines girls are just as beautiful. So aside from being exotic, I think there are definitely many things that are also important, like intelligence, personality, education, mentality.......Of course it also depends on who you date. Asian men are very very different. That is why I really prefer people call only me Chinese instead of Asian. 


Just my personal opinion, and hope it helps. 


pawie May 30

Quote from TammyFaye Hello, my name is Tammy. I am attracted to Asian men but I can't find any that are interested. I've dated an Asian man before but that was 10 years ago. It's not easy finding AM where I live. I don't know, maybe I'm just not attractive enough. I'm not fat (120lbs) and I'm not tall (5'2"). What is it that turns AM away from me? 
I'm not sure what's your target market. From my understanding, I always generalise traditional mindset asians to like submissive girl who like to appear frail as they are like uhhh... easy prey to put it frankly. They feed from the feeling of superiority. I myself would assume any white girl to be very smart & capable that if i ask any question i might risk embarrassing myself for being incompetent.


Like what tangning said personally I also prefer anyone close to my height 169cm minus a slight nod so... 164cm ish maybe.

So my tip would be:
1. Be initiative in conversation starters.
2. Be supportive & interested in whatever shit his interests may be.
Hang in there, I do know some hot AM are out there if you look further.